Saturday, July 16, 2011
I need some relationship help /: (please read the whole thing, i need help...)?
I read this and HAD to answer. When My bf was in highschool he was a biggg time player. He had a gf for 3 years and she went to a different school, she was younger and not very ``popular`` so she didnt really have many friends. He had girlfriends on the side throughout theyre whole relationship, and cheated on her like every weekend. She never suspected a thing. He was dating this one girl from his school and kept telling her he would break up with his gf for her and he wanted to be with her, but of course he never did. he didnt give a crap about his gf, and he also didnt give a crap about any of the girls on the side. he was a selfsih person only looking out for his interests - sex lol. The ``other girl`` would stop talking to him, tell him shes done, but shed always end up going back. he used her for sex and for a house to chill at. What this guy is doing is trying to draw you back in, he likes that he has you on a leash and can have you running back to him - it makes him feel good, while he is making you feel bad. This guy is never going to change right now. I was also in your position before when I was in highschool, I was seeing a guy who had a girlfriend that lived an hour away, he never left her for me, and somehow she found out about us and he stopped talking to me. if he was going to leave his gf, trust me he wouldve already. The best thing you can do is stop talking to him. Everytime he says something sweet or cute your heart is going to think he`s changed but thats just his game. As hard as it will be, you have to move on,, the longer you keep talking to him, the more your going to care and the more your going to get hurt. Just put on an act like your better off without him, that your happy being single and your enjoying life, eventually you will feel like that, and once you do, youll find someone way better who actually appreciates you. Goodluck!
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