Im crying ,help pplssssss?

so im 22 years old, and this guy is 26.. we talked over fb, and we met on the gym.. that was on april 26-2011 we liked eachother, and he was cool, calling me all the time, asking about me, and bbming "texting" so he invited me to a resturant and we went to the beach, we hang out so many times, like we dated .. but i always heard from my brother, he always tells me dont talk to this guy hes a player, and he asked about him at college, bc this guy he study at same my brothers college.. so i never believed any words, cause i did really like him and he was always treating me good, maybe bc it was at the very beginning .. " and of course he hold my hand and he tried to kiss me from 3rd date but i didnt let him but after like we hang out more and more then i let him.. lol cause i didnt want him to think im easy.. but one day i was chatting with him over the fb,, and my brother read it and he got mad at me and yelled at me, and stuff cause he loves me thats why he get scared of guys who lives here , he think they will end up playing me.. so i told the guy that was dating i was like my brother knew he reads our chatting , and hes like yeah tell him were getting to know eachother and we serious about it.. so after a while i told him hey my brother wants to meet u, hes like ok “ we were at the restaurant eating” then we went to store for clothing he wanted to buy a suit for his cousins wedding, so there was a guy there staring at me but i didnt tell him lol, and then after eating we want to pick up the suit, hes like u stay at the car..after he camee back he sat at the car hes like yeah that guy was looking at u , i was like so hes thinks im cute lol .. so anyways then after a while i wanted to test him, that if hes serious with me and stuff , so i asked him my brother wants to meet u “like nothing really serious just he wants to talk to u” bc he already said “OK” after 3 days he got chanage and hes not calling me or bbming me, i felt weird, i was like theres somthing happing, so i was crying and stress over it.. my friend called him shes like to him, whats wrong with her, shes not eating and shes crying, hes like bc she rushed so much .why would i meet her brother, what if didnt work out between us and blah blah.. so the 2nd day i called him i was like why ur not asking about me, hes like wanna go to beach with my friends, ill talk to u later. after 1 week i saw him at the gym cause i called him to see him, so we talked , hes like ur rushing so much , i was like ok umm nvm lets just not talk about my family ,, forget about it and blah blah, lets just get to know eachother... but i felt he changed little bit, but yeah he kissed me and stuff he always felt “horny whenever hes aound me” i dk if he wanted something else, but he knows i would never let him do something morethan cuddling “i mean sex” never.. so anyways.. after a 2 weeks his friend opened a shop so he was always busy helping him” but he never called me at night or ask about me like he used to so i felt sad and depressed, i always cal him ask about him.. so he thought im begging him and stuff, so i didt call him for 2 days and he didnt even ask about me? Like really what kind of relationship is this >> so i got pissed.. i called him and i was like whats this,whats going on, u dont call u dont ask wth.. hes like just dnt beg alot i hate it, i said im not begging u.. im not asking u to buy me an expensive pursse all im asking u as to ask about me.. care about me,then he called at morning and thats it.. after 3 days i texted him in the morning isaid lets meet up 2day i wannna see u. And he reads the mesg and didnt respond bc we have bbm messeneger so we could know if a mesg been read.. anyways i went off from work at 3pm i called and left a voice mail saying i miss him.. so he didnt call back.. after 3 hours i bbmed him saying where is he. And he sent me “whatever face” and he changed his pic at messenger to a graduation pic him with a girl. He was wearing the shirt that i bought for his bday.. so he bbmed meback saying “ stop bothering me im with a girl” i knew he was jk.. but i asked him if hes jk hes like stopppp bothering me im with a girl bye.....and i freaked out i told him so mean things and i deleted him from my messenger and told him to lose my # .. bc i believed him.. so after 1 hour he called me saying he was his sis graduation,and he wanted to piss me off or make me mad, but i took it all serious , and he told me i can’t deal with u and blah blah.. its done.. i was crying i said its ur fault u were jk i asked u but u didnt say u r!I thought its real, i said lets us talk about dont that, another chance.Hes like its done. 2nd day i called him and i told him i got in a car accident he didnt even care hes like call ur parents i can’t mess my class, i was dying crying he didnt care,and after that he deleted me off of fb:( pls whos fault is that my fault or his, he said he was jk, how could he jk like that, and he made it all my fau